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When my editor suggested I write a column about powerful words for job interviews, I started by researching what other people had written about the subject.

To my surprise, most articles about interview “power words” were full of puffy, self-descriptive adjectives, like ambitious, confident, diligent, honest, etc. That is just SO wrong.

Why in heaven’s name would ANYBODY care about how your see yourself? Or what happy-sappy words you use to describe yourself? Especially since you’re unlikely to express any opinion that’s not positive!  It’s like the A.A. Milne poem:

I went to the Zoo, and they waited to say:
” Have you been a good girl? ”
” Have you been a good girl? ”
Well, what did they think that I went there to do?
And why should I want to be bad at the Zoo?
And should I be likely to say if I had? 

Look, I’ve gotten a job offer every time I’ve interviewed and I’m 100% certain I never used any of those words because–shock!–I would never waste an interviewer’s time expressing my personal opinion of my own character.  Why would they care?

Spouting self-praise is especially silly when you’re in a conversation because the interviewer(s) can see and hear for themselves whether you actually possess the traits you’re claiming to possess.

For example, if you repeatedly insist you’re “self-confident” but are sweating bullets during the interview, the interviewer will immediately know you’re either fooling yourself or lying to them.

So, no, words like “ambitious” and “loyal” aren’t going to land you your dream job. What you really need are these five honest-to-goodness job interview “power words”:…Read more